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My mother did not enthusiastically anticipate her four children returning to school. It is my memory that over Labor Day weekend she would lament the fact of us starting a new school year. (The school year in the fifties typically began the week after Labor Day and finished by mid-June.) I have yet to meet up with a Mom or Dad who shared my mothers sense of loss that we would be away from her for significant hours over the course of 180 days. Which is not to say that my mother devalued public education. Far from it. Both my parents were and still are strong advocates for public schools and paying the requisite taxes to support the institution. Even now, more than 40 years since their last child finished high scool, my parents express they are happy to pay taxes that support public education. Parents could assist greatly in garnering financial support for school funding by recognizing the tremenduous value our schools provide. Writing state legislators to raise teacher salaries, supporting the arts in education and electing candidates who have shown they do more than give lip service to funding public education is a good first effort. Just as essential is sending children to school each day with the understanding that education is not an entitlement. Education cannot be delivered to the home doorstep like a pizza! Rather education must be sought after and pursued with rigorous commitment and a desire to learn. Parents need to clearly indicate interest in their child's academic success by finding out from each child what happened in school and what effort is required for achievement and mastery of content. Finally, it is the responsibility of the child to do the necessary work of school: studying, homework, learning the basics and turning in the required work. However, it is the responsibility of the parent to create a positive learning environment in the home. This includes turning off the TV, sending a child to school who is properly rested, dressed and nourished, and with the unequivocal understanding that teachers are professionals to be respected and esteemed. You will not only gift your child and her/his teachers by so-doing. You will also make our community more viable, our state more competitive and our nation a better place to live.
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